其实在现实生活也是如此，无论是在爱情的初期，还是在交往过程中，部分人存有一个很不好的习惯：“以第一印象定好坏的习惯，认为一个人好时，就会爱屋及乌，认为一个人不好时，就会全盘否定”，但实际上这是不恰当的，很容易带来难以想象的负面影响，如同简·奥斯丁在《傲慢与偏见》中全篇想要表达的一个主旨：“类似于偏见般的第一印象，并不可靠”，美与丑，都需要用时间来界定，保持理智的情感，才能看到最真实的人，这样才有可能不会错过“彩虹般”的人。

《怦然心动》台词

1、The higher I got, the more amazed I was by the view.

我爬得越高，越为眼前的风景所惊叹。

2、Some days the sunsets would be purple and pink. And some days they were a blazing orange setting fire to the clouds on the horizon. It was during one of those sunsets that my father's idea of the whole being greater than the sum of its parts moved from my head to my heart.

有时落日泛起紫红的余晖，有时散发出橘红色的火光燃起天边的晚霞。在这绚烂的日落景象中，我慢慢领悟了父亲所说的'整体胜于局部总和的道理。

3、Sometimes a little discomfort in the beginning can save a whole lot of pain down the road.

有时起初的隐忍可以避免一路的疼痛。

4、I never been embarrassed by where I 've lived before, I also never really thought about money, I knew we weren't rich, but I didn't feel like we were missing anything.

我从没有因为住在哪里而自卑，也没有太多地想过贫穷，我知道我们不富裕，但我感觉我没有错过任何东西。

5、When she walked out of the door, I thought back to the first time I saw her. How could anybody, ever, have wanted to run away from Juli Baker.

她走出门时，我仿佛回到了初见她的那一刻，怎么有人想要躲着朱莉?贝克呢?

6、Some of us get dipped in flat, some in satin, some in gloss. But every once in a while you find someone who's iridescent, and when you do, nothing will ever compare.

有些人沦为平庸浅薄，玉其外，而败絮其中。可不经意间，有一天你会遇到一个彩虹般绚丽的人，从此以后，其他人就不过是匆匆浮云。

7、A painting is more than the sum of its parts. A cow by itself is just a cow. A meadow by itself is just grass, flowers. And the sun peeking through the trees is just a beam of light. But you put them all together and it can be magic.

一幅画不是众多物件简单拼凑而成的。牛只是一头牛，草地也只有青草和鲜花，而穿过树枝的阳光也仅仅只是一束光，但如果将它们放到一起，就会产生魔一般的魅力。

8、The first day I met Bryce Loski, I flipped. It was those eyes, something in those dazzling eyes.

见到布莱斯·罗斯基的第一天，我心动了。他的双眸有种魔力让我如痴如醉。

9、The next thing I know, he's holding my hand and looking right into my eyes. My heart stopped. Was this it? Would this be my first kiss?

接下来，我所知道的就是，他紧紧握住我的手，与我深情对视。我的心跳停止了。就要来了吗?我的初吻就要来了吗?

10、Sherry Stalls was nothing but a whiny, gossipy, backstabbing flirt. All hair and no substance. And there she was holding hands with Bryce. My Bryce. The one who was walking around with my first kiss.